Men deceive single ladies due to these five factors

- Single ladies are often at the receiving end in a good number of relationship

- It is not a news that several men break the heart of women they could have dated for more than five years

- The blame game never ends between men and women

It is unfair if a man breaks the heart of a lady who has been with him for a long time. Sometimes, a guy could tell a lady it is all over without thinking of the emotional consequences of what the woman will face afterwards.

It is very hard for women to keep their emotions bottled in; single ladies often express their love for a man who has won over their heart. In this case, the man could decide to play such a lady as yoyo.

Similarly, ladies are involved in acts that make men take undue advantage of them all the time. They easily fall into the trap men set for them all in the name of love, which is indeed shrouded with so much deceits.

Single ladies should take note of the highlighted reasons below and see if they are to blame or the men carry the blame

1. Marriage factor

When a man tells a lady he is seriously interested in marrying her and the woman refuses, the next thing the man does is to devise ways in which he would hoodwink the woman. This is because men are very smart at knowing what category a lady belongs (runs girl or wife material). Immediately a man finds out a lady is a runs girl, the next thing the man tires to do is to have fun with her and dump her.

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Ladies who fall into this category come up with lamentation that a guy was with them for some years, but later left them.

2. Dating

The word dating is what men use to trap single ladies. If a lot of ladies are asked what they want, they will answer they want dating. Therefore, a man will play his trump card and stick to the woman for a very time until he achieves his aim of use and dump.

         A man an his lady

The trend in today's current world is dating and not marriage. A lady who is even ripe for marriage will still say he wants to date. In this wise, men also play along the woman in her wish and in little or no time give her what is called a hit and run relationship.

3. Old age

The earlier the better is a statement which is better than better late than never.

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As a woman begins to get to her thirties, desperation begins to set in to a good number of women in such age category, the next thing is for men to deceive them with marriage. At this stage, women become desperadoes. They feel so much sense of insecurity as they see ladies who are much younger than them addressed as Mrs so and so.

4. Money factor

Women are synonymous with the word money. One of the ways to win a runs lady's heart is to play the money game. This is because the lady will easily succumb. Likewise, there is hardly any lady who does not respect a man who spends on her. Moreso, it is important for a guy to know he will spend on his lady. However, if the lady is the lady-mad type, guys will know she is highly susceptible to deceit. In this way, she will be used and dumped.

5. Ladies' priorities

Some ladies deceive themselves by setting fantastical goals for themselves. They build castle in the air. They tell the guy this is what they want and nothing. They play the time delay game whereby the guy will be at their mercy. Ladies of this nature do not give a guy either a YES or a NO answer for a long period of time. When the man discovers the lady is neither here nor there in terms of the type of relationship she wants, the guy behaves a fool until he harms the lady and dumps her.