Side Chicks Have Saved Many Marriages: Married Nigerian Man Says

The war most married women are waging against themselves and unmarried ladies is getting out of hands. They even go as far as calling these women out when they suspect they are in any form of relationship between them and their husbands or catch them in the act.

The astonishing part is, they leave their husbands  and face only their lovers.  You need to see how many of them protect their randy husbands and trouble their lovers only. They even gave them a name "Sidechicks". These sad married women are always on the look out for unmarried women.


A married male  Facebook user who is also a trained medical doctor and a traditionalist took to his Facebook page to narrate how these unmarried young women  are saving marriages and more, says they are not bad but good. Most of them, not all.
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Unpopular opinion: Side chicks have saved many marriages. Imagine how many times that these ladies said "please go home ,your family needs you" and the guys obeyed? Imagine how many times they'd say "forgive your wife ,stay back in your marriage ,she was only being a woman "? . Truth is these ladies are not always the enemies they are made out to be. There are times of tension, when spouses are at daggers drawn and the man runs off ,she (side chick) offers momentary release of tension and rekindles joyous spirit, and then sends him off to his home with a matching instruction:" make sure you're a good husband and dad ".
Many side chicks show extreme solidarity to their sworn enemies at the home . But they never get credit for it,they don't bother anyways, cause it was selfless, just women winning. Women standing selflessly for women.
All we hear about is " home breakers ". As if there were no homes that broke without infidelity. Typical stereotypes.
Just like we label polygamous marriages as being synonymous with conflicts as if there are no conflicts in monogamous marriages .
These rising divorce figures,are they divorces between man and his many wives or man and wife ?

Often times we just sentimentalize issues and drawn out the reality.

And when one talks about these things sincerely and realistically they'd come for your head as if you were asking for routine DNA testing.

Chaii my head ! Who hit me with a pestle?

Underrated!

Ozo Elengum Orio